Thursday, July 12, 2012

I wasn't going to do one of these posts, but ...

I am. Sorry. You don't have to read it. And I don't want to be one of those girls whose life is over and all they do is talk about how sad they are. I really am okay. I mean, it's hard for me, but I'm doing fine and my life isn't over or anything. I have a lot to be excited about, and I am. For the most part, I'm happy. But, it's still hard.

Anyways, here's what I was thinking about lately ...

Why break ups suck:
-Everyone asks you about it. And what happened. But you don't really know how to explain.
-Everything reminds you about them. And that makes you sad.
-You have to start dating again, which can be both good and bad.
-Facebook does not make break ups easier.
-All your plans are suddenly void and you have to come up with new ones.
-Sometimes, they just ... suck.

Why break ups actually are good, despite being hard:
-It's obviously better this way, or it wouldn't have happened.
-Boys become a lot more interesting again.
-You see how loved you are, by more than just one person in your life.
-There are a lot of exciting things you can do, single, that maybe you couldn't before or that would have been harder. There are so many different activities and goals to work on in this world and life, a break up doesn't have to become the end of the world.

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